The obituary notice of Trevor BRUINERS

Always remembered as a little boy when we all lived in Fulham in the 1960’s. R.I.P. with your Mum, Thelma

So sad & shocked to read of Trevor's passing. We used to be friends with the family when we all lived in Fulham those many years ago.

love you for ever
Miss you
And so do our children
The longer u r not with us,the harder it gets
wish I could be with you
Sandra xxx

I have so much to tell you; so much to show you. It pains me that you have missed so very much. My 16th birthday, the boyfriends, the drunken moments, my 18th birthday, learning how to drive, going to university, getting my cat Astra ( who you probably would have secretly loved and called Fulham the 2nd), my 21st birthday, meeting my future husband, getting engaged, and now, getting married. That is nothing when I think about what you have really missed. The times I have needed you and you weren't here. Praying nightly that you will visit me in my dreams, and when you don't visit for weeks, months; wondering why did god punish me? I still don't understand why you had to leave and I never will. My heart will remain broken until it is my time to join you. I pray you'll wait for me, as I can't imagine a heaven without you. I love you and I pray you are safe and without suffering. Thank you for being my dad; although our time was short lived, I will never forget the man you were and the person you made me to be.

I have so much to tell you; so much to show you. It pains me that you have missed so very much. My 16th birthday, the boyfriends, the drunken moments, my 18th birthday, learning how to drive, going to university, getting my cat Astra ( who you probably would have secretly loved and called Fulham the 2nd), my 21st birthday, meeting my future husband, getting engaged, and now, getting married. That is nothing when I think about what you have really missed. The times I have needed you and you weren't here. Praying nightly that you will visit me in my dreams, and when you don't visit for weeks, months; wondering why did god punish me? I still don't understand why you had to leave and I never will. My heart will remain broken until it is my time to join you. I pray you'll wait for me, as I can't imagine a heaven without you. I love you and I pray you are safe and without suffering. Thank you for being my dad; although our time was short lived, I will never forget the man you were and the person you made me to be.

Sorry, my message was truncated. I would be very glad to get an e-mail message to

ulrich.abel"at"t-?on?line.de

Thank you in advance. Ulrich.

I am very sad to learn that Trevor passed away. Please accept my deep condolence to the family. As a young boy, in 1973 I visited family Bruiners in Kilmaine Road, London, and met Trevor and Barry. It would be a great pleasure for me to obtain a message by my former penfriend Barry Bruiners to

Thank you and all best wishes. Ulrich