The obituary notice of Jeremy BAILEY (Jerry)

Well your being a bit naughty Bro.. I know it was you 🥰.. I don't mind though I love your visits... wonder what your next visit will bring? Love you sweetheart 😘 The chain will never be broken whey whey xxx

My darling Bro, a year ago today you came home from hospital to spend your last days with us 💔.. I will never forget the big smile on your face as the ambulance men helped you to your bedroom.. it took a while to get you comfortable, you didn't like the special mattress the nurses put in for you but you got used to it.. I fussed over you plumping your pillows, gently moving you this way and that way, finally we found your "sweet spot" as you called it.. we talked, we laughed, we cried.. I asked you many times if you wanted to see certain people, your answer was always the same, NO!! "They haven't bothered with me and I don't want them here now" The only people you wanted by your side was Bex, Andre, & me, and that's the way it was for five days.. we had your music playing softly day and night.. and had a monitor in your room, I would help you to eat some rice pudding, custard, scrambled egg.. your morphine kept you comfortable, you never moaned once.. I was so proud of you Bro 💖.. your favorite people were with you on that heart wrenching day, I held your hand so tightly, and gently told you to go and find star, you lifted your other hand and made a stroking movement, and we knew you had found her, minutes later you took your last breath 😭 and my world was shattered.. I knew life would never be the same without you.. you were such a good brother & uncle and we loved you so so much xx.. now your angel in heaven, I know one day I'll see you again, until then sleep tight sweetheart 💖 I love you and miss you.. The chain will never be broken whey whey xxxxx

Hi Bro, Been a busy day, I've emptied the built in wardrobe in your bedroom, who knew i had so much Christmas stuff, I found the beautiful big gonks we bought at trago, forgot all about them still got the tags on them lol.. we loved trago didn't we especially around Christmas time.. I'm keeping your framed pictures of star safe for you 💖... I was doing ok until I found your walking stick 😢 you hated that stick didn't you, sorry but i can't get rid of it.. I then found your dressing gown, although it's been washed it still smells of you and your baccy 😢.. I miss you so much Bro, I'm dreading next week, sleep well my angel, I love you always ❤️ The chain will never be broken whey whey xxxx

Thankyou for your guidance yesterday Bro I could feel you were with us giving the nod of approval 💖.. so we have taken the plunge.. we have the perfect spot for your little memorial, and know you'll love it there with us listening to the river.. Love you Bro.. miss you always xx The chain will never be broken.. whey whey xxx

Hi my darling, another Sunday another week without your laughter, without your mischievous ways 💔.. if I was asked one question why I thought the world of you, I could give a million answers and each one would be true.. I loved you from the minute I became your big sister ❤️ I loved your freckles (or freakles) as we called them lol.. I often wondered why they disappeared.. you had so many and you hated them.. do you remember when I tried to join them up with permanent marker pen lol.. I got in BIG trouble for that, grounded, pocket money stopped etc etc.. you bought me some sweets with your pocket money though bless you 😘 we looked after each other didn't we.. when I was removed from the family through no fault of my own.. I didn't grieve for anyone but you, it broke my heart 💔 that I wasn't able to look after you, I knew nobody else would.. but we both survived Bro, both tougher both stronger.. over the years there were many attempts to break our bond but she/ they never won 💖.. I miss you sweetheart, I love you so so much.. The chain will never be broken. Whey whey xxx

Hi sweetheart, well it's been a very exciting week (you know why) it's only marred because you are not here with us.. How do I turn the page and continue to the next chapter without you in our story 💔.. Today it was lovely to see the smile of delight on Jowans face, on Bex's face and on Chris's face, we haven't seen Cory yet but we spoke to him yesterday and could tell he was smiling too.. you would've loved seeing everyone so happy... I miss you so much Bro, wherever I go please make sure you come with me 💖.. by the way I have enough white feathers now to make my own seagull lol.. love you sweetheart.. sleep tight xx The chain will never be broken whey whey xxx