The obituary notice of Stuart Denis ALDERSON

Dear Dad,
It’s hard to believe how long it’s been since I last heard your voice.
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you — your smile, your wisdom, the way you made everything feel okay.
Life feels quieter without you.
The world keeps spinning, but there’s a space in my heart that will never be filled.
Sometimes I close my eyes and pretend you're still here — sitting in your favorite chair, calling my name, or telling one of your old stories.
And in those moments, I feel a little closer to you.
I miss your advice, your laughter, and your silent strength.
I miss the way you believed in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself.
You were more than a father.
You were home.
If love could build a stairway, I’d climb to heaven just to hug you one more time.
Until that day comes, I carry you with me — in every decision, in every quiet night, in every part of who I am.
I love you, Dad. Always.

Three years have now gone bye since you left us. Cannot believe how I have carried on without you. You were my soulmate, my friend, my lover, my everything. I loved you from meeting you in 1974 and still love you now even though you are gone. It doesn’t get any easier without you. I will love you forever until we meet again my love. 💔😥

Well Dad it’s just over 3 years since you left us and I still find myself going to ring you to tell you what the boys have been up to then I remember and I speak it out loud instead! Love and miss you so much until we meet again xx

Hi Dad, miss you so so much 😭 time isn’t really a healer, I still feel a massive part of me is missing and nothing heals that void. My life feels without direction or purpose, just full of struggle and grief. I try to think what you would say to help me and my minds hitting a blank! Just know I love you and will miss you forever until we’re together again. ❤️