Karen and Julie,
What a life. Brian was a legend. The fact that the Aberavon Green Stars rugby team paused for a moment of silence in his honor says so much about the mark he left behind.
I remember Uncle Brian as a man of endless passions and remarkable curiosity — someone who seemed able to offer a thoughtful, informed take on just about anything. When we were kids, he was our rugby coach, and being family never earned us any leniency. He worked us hard, running us up and down the field until we were completely winded. Then, with a grin, he’d tell us to put our hands behind our heads and take a deep breath — insisting it would “taste like wine.”
Wine, of course, was another subject he knew well. He brewed his own, including a famously potent elderberry concoction best approached with caution.
I keep thinking of the words of Dr. Seuss: “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”
RIP Brian x
Nick Haines, Kansas City USA
26/01/2026