I lost someone very special to my heart, I lost Stephanie.
Stephanie was one of my biggest supporters and dearest friends during my time in the UK. She was responsible for me being able to stay in the country and live my dream whilst the dreadful pandemic was closing every single window of options. She was someone who believed in me fiercely, consistently, and she always showed up with kindness, encouragement, an incredible sense of humour and a generosity of spirit that made even the hardest moments feel lighter. She had a rare way of making you laugh, feel seen, heard and safe; of celebrating your wins as if they were her own.
I will carry her words, her stories, her beautiful smile, her careful nature, and her belief in me for the rest of my life. I’ll remember forever the incredibly fun day-trips we spent around the UK, how much we would laugh together working on her loved garden, and how much I got to learn from such incredible woman.
Knowing she was surrounded by love and care until the very end brings some comfort, but her absence leaves a difficult and devastating silence in my life.
Thank you, Stephanie, for everything you gave me so freely. You mattered more to me than you ever knew. I’ll never forget the enormous impact you’ve had in my life and in my growth into a young man which, I promise, will continue to make you proud.
Above everything, I feel glad and relieved to have created such a happy last memory of us when, just 3 months ago, we got to smile, laugh, and hug tightly for the last time. I’ll always love you my dear Stephanie.
Rest gently 🤍
Rafael Oliveira
23/02/2026
