My earliest memories of my Aunt Judith and my Uncle Anil are of the two of them as an inseparable team.
They got along beautifully and created a home that was always open, warm, and welcoming. It became my second home.
Their home was also a place of care and service. Uncle Anil even welcomed my ageing grandaunt Monica to live with them, and many others found a second home under their roof.
Losing Anil at such a young age was inconceivable to me, because in my mind, Anil and Judith were one whole—completing each other. And yet, when she was left alone, I deeply admired how Judith responded.
She returned to Newcastle, rebuilt her life from scratch, found work, and reconnected with the town where she grew up. She dedicated time to visiting elderly people, kept long-term friendships alive, and carried a deep loyalty to the people in her world.
Judith later visited us when we lived in Dubai, and again when we were in Sydney. I remember each morning waking up before my children or Patrina, coming downstairs, and finding Judith already settled on the big sofa with our dog Beau at her feet, tea in hand. We would spend the first half hour or more of the day talking. She would tell me about Zoe and Colin, Andrew and Mark, and show me pictures of her family. She spoke fondly about her friends, her trips to church, volunteering in the café, and the work she loved doing.
Judith’s life was full of warmth, faith, and generosity. She loved people deeply, and she gave of herself freely. She has a great sense of fairness and respect.
Now, as she has passed into glory, I can only say this: until we meet again.
Thank you, Judith, for your warmth, your home, your heart, and your love. I love you and miss you but I know that you are reunited with all the people that you have loved and lost … and your joy is made complete.
Pritam Sarkar
29/08/2025