The obituary notice of Daniel Edward Ronald BIRDSEY

Went to pick daddy up from hospital today Daniel.But he actually wasn’t allowed out,he got it wrong because he’s still very confused.He’s gone to Morriston ward L. Don’t know what they do there until I ask tomorrow.He’s absolutely filthy so I’m going to make sure I shower him tomorrow while I’m there.He can’t hold anything now which wasn’t happening in the house so that’s another thing that’s bad.He said he’s tipped 6 cups of tea over him because he can’t grip the cup 🥹

Daddy’s still in A and E Daniel.He’s been there 27 hours.I’ve got this awful feeling that if his x rays are okay the doctor will send him back home in the morning.He only agreed for me to ring an ambulance because that’s the only way ward 12 would take him back in.So he’s going to be really upset if he comes back home and all this was for absolutely nothing.And I will be fuming ❤️

Had to phone 999 today Daniel.The paramedic classed daddy as category 1 and the ambulance was here in 10 minutes.The 3 medics couldn’t believe the hospital sent him home last week,an hour after collapsing and hitting his head.He’s got a black eye again and bruises all over him.Just found a card in his glasses case that says he has VRA as well as MRSA,but the nurses didn’t tell me that.They had to help him to the toilet just like I’ve been doing.He’s even weaker and still can’t stand without collapsing.He hasn’t eaten for days I haven’t even been able to get him to drink water.This time he’s really confused too,I’ll give him all his tablets then 10 minutes later he’ll ask me for his tablets again.Medics we’re asking him his grandchildrens names and he didn’t know.That was strange because he says their names when he talks about them all the time.Didn’t know his address or date of birth either.He’s had to go to Morriston hospital first for x rays because otherwise ward 12 won’t take him in.Although these injuries were caused by being on ward 12 in the first place.I don’t know what’s happening unless he rings me which he’ll find hard because he can’t really hold a conversation at the moment 🥹

This month it’ll be Father’s Day, daddy’s birthday,and our wedding anniversary Daniel.Im just wondering with daddy being so ill with absolutely no sign of improvement if they will all be his last.Or by a miracle he will still be here next June 🤞

Daddy just slept since he came home yesterday Daniel.And every time he wakes to go to the bathroom I know he’s going to collapse.Hes got no sort of life at all now.He used to enjoy sitting up the garden for a few minutes.He can’t even do that anymore 🥹

I’ve sat up all night Daniel too scared to go to sleep.I’ve picked daddy up from the floor 3 times,every time he was going to the bathroom he was collapsing.About 5 o’clock this morning he asked me to phone the hospital because he wanted to go back in.But she just said for him to phone an ambulance.But he’s never wanted to do that because he’s in to much pain to wait probably 14 hours in a and e.So here we are again back to square one.Only good news I’ve got is Cory is starting work in Amazon next week.Apart from that things are just as bad 🥹

Daddy came home today Daniel. I wonder how long he’ll last until he goes back in to hospital again. He was in there exactly 2 weeks this time. Now that they’ve eventually got rid of this infection, I’ll have to be really careful no germs come into the house now ❤️